What If Your Kids Never Knew Who You Really Were? Why We Created a Journal for Mothers
- hannahkdurand
- Oct 3
- 3 min read
What If Your Kids Never Knew the Real You?
Picture this: years from now, your children are grown. Maybe they’re raising their own families, maybe they’re chasing big dreams. And one day, they ask, “Mom, what were you really like before us?”
Would they know the answer?
The truth is, most of us as mothers are remembered only through the lens of “Mom.” But behind that title is a whole person — with childhood dreams, teenage heartbreaks, first jobs, risks, adventures, mistakes, and victories that shaped who we are.
If we don’t capture those stories, they fade. And our kids may never get the chance to truly know us beyond the role of caretaker. That's why we created a journal for mothers.
Why Writing Your Story Matters as a Mom
Journaling for mothers isn’t just about reflection, it’s about creating a legacy. Here’s why writing your story matters:
You are more than “Mom.” Putting your memories on paper shows your kids the whole person you’ve always been.
Your story builds connection. Family research shows that children who know their parents’ stories develop a deeper sense of identity and resilience.
It lasts for generations. Long after you’re gone, your words remain. A legacy journal becomes a time capsule of your life.
Your voice matters. And when you write it down, your kids can carry it with them forever.
How Your Children Benefit From Knowing the Real You
When you share your life story, you’re not just writing for yourself, you’re giving your children a gift.
It builds empathy. They’ll understand your struggles, not just your successes.
It inspires them. Your path — messy and imperfect — will encourage them to chase their own dreams.
It gives them roots. Your story becomes part of their story, grounding them in family history.
Imagine your daughter discovering how you once felt nervous before a big presentation at work, or your son realizing you too once had doubts about becoming a parent. Those connections become priceless.
Simple Ways to Start Sharing Your Story
Writing your life story doesn’t have to be overwhelming. You can begin small — one prompt, one page, one memory at a time.
Start With Journaling Prompts for Moms
If you’re not sure where to begin, use guiding questions:
What’s a childhood memory you’ll never forget?
What did you dream of becoming when you were little?
What’s the hardest decision you’ve ever made?
What do you hope your kids learn from your life?
Even answering just one of these in ten minutes can spark a story worth saving.
Keep It Imperfect
Your kids don’t want polished essays. They want you. Your handwriting, your voice, even your messy grammar. It’s all part of what makes your story real.
Create a Legacy Journal
Gather your stories in one place. This could be:
A notebook you write in regularly.
A digital file you update over time.
Or a guided keepsake journal designed specifically for mothers — like the EverMother Journal, created to help moms capture their lives in meaningful prompts and reflections.
The Letter I Wish My Mom Had Written Me
There are so many things I wish I knew about my mom before she became “Mom.” What she dreamed of at 16. How she felt when she first moved away from home. The times she failed, and what she learned.
I never got to read those stories from her. And that’s why I write mine now. Because one day, my children will wonder. And when they do, I want them to have more than just my memories — I want them to have my words.
Closing Thoughts
Your life is more than motherhood. Every joy, risk, heartbreak, and triumph has shaped you into who you are today. Writing your story isn’t just an act of reflection — it’s a legacy of love.
If you don’t know where to start, begin with one story. One page. One prompt. Because your story deserves to be told — and your kids deserve to know it.
👉 Want guided prompts and a beautiful place to keep your words? Check out the EverMother Digital Journal — created to help mothers capture their stories, one memory at a time.
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